Love is a transformer force, a magical state. Although it is a form of complete knowledge and insight, it is hard for us, being so emotionally affected by its wonder, to see its order or design.

 We have only to figure out what it is. We must learn how to read the signs made available to us and let love fit into our lives.

 When love meets an obstacle that will not move, it does not die. Love simply changes shape and takes a different form.

 There is an inner longing in all of us to be connected to our lovers, and, at the same time, as deep a need to be separate from them.

 We attract others to help us define ourselves, to feel complete, and to see ourselves more clearly. We can’t live with them and can’t live without them. After we find out that being defined by someone else isn’t real, we realize that the answer is inside; always inside and just out of reach.